The Comment Corner
As people were sending us their referals we noticed a theme. These couples don’t know each other and live all over the country. You will notice many of them mention how helpful it was to know that we were “In Their Corner” during rough seasons of their marraige. That sparked the title of this section… The Comment Corner.
God has had a plan for us to come aloingside marriages since the begnining (see Our Story to hear more aobut that) . It’s an honor that each of these couples trusted God enough to step into the vunerable space with us, allow us to be in their corner, on their team, and ehlp them create a beautiful marraige when the world would tell them to throw in the towel and start over!
Hear from couples we have helped along the way:
It’s hard to put into words how much Bobby and Kierra mean to us. As friends for almost a decade, and then as our incredible pre-marital counselors and marriage mentors, they’ve consistently poured into our lives with such love and sincerity. Their guidance, rooted in their faith, has truly meant everything to us. They have a beautiful way of getting to the heart of things, asking insightful questions that helped us uncover hidden expectations and establish truly great communication from the start. We always feel so comfortable and understood in their presence, and we’re just so blessed by their authentic and loving mentorship
- Noah & Allina Salcido
My spouse and I were on the brink of divorce. The baggage and deep-seated trauma I carried from my previous marriage had created a wall of fear and distrust between us. We were constantly triggering each other, and I felt completely hopeless.
Through Bobby & Kierra’s marriage coaching, we finally learned how to unpack that history safely. We developed the exact communication tools we needed to stop the cycle of defensiveness and rebuild genuine intimacy. Our marriage went from frustration and silent treatments to a loving fulfilling relationship where we actually wanted to be around each other again. We became more connected and secure. Thank you for giving us our future back..
-Tod & Celia Hunnicutt
The Martens are wonderful humans! When we were a young couple trying to find real help navigating marriage in today’s world, we turned to Bobby and Kierra because they were great examples of a Godly marriage and had mentored many couples before us! They were extremely kind, genuine and transparent which made it very easy for us to open up about our successes and struggles in our relationship thus far. We are a better couple today because of their mentorship, guidance and friendship!
-The Ensleys
We were blessed to have Bobby & Kiki be part of our lives in a season of laying foundations for our family. They transparently modeled productive conflict management and sacrificial love. We always left a conversation with them feeling known and not alone. They effortlessly recalled scripture in their encouragements and listened wholeheartedly when we spoke. We never had to wonder if we had someone in our corner because they always made it clear. They asked the hard questions and always answered honestly. Never leaving us feeling exposed or judged when we were sharing vulnerably.
We still utilize the advice that we received from them 10 years ago, in our daily lives. It's weird to think about what are marriage would be if we hadn't met the Martens. The kind of parents we would be...? Honestly we couldn't have asked for a better couple to speak life into our family.
-Trevor & Brittaney Stewart
When we came to Bobby and Kierra, our marriage was over. We were living separately, divorce papers had been filed, and we were carrying the weight of deep hurt, broken trust, and addiction. We had both lost hope that restoration was possible. But Bobby and Kierra didn't give up on us. They met with each of us individually and together, prayed for us, counseled us with wisdom and compassion, and believed in our marriage when we no longer could. They championed our relationship when we had nothing left to give.
That was in 2012. Today, we are celebrating 16 years of marriage and soberity! This is a true testament to God's grace and the impact of Bobby and Kierra's faithful investment in our lives. We will always be grateful for the hope they carried for us until we could carry it ourselves. If your marriage is struggling, we wholeheartedly recommend Bobby and Kierra. They truly have a heart for seeing marriages restored.
-Ashley & Jenna Hochstadt
Bobby and Kiki have been a huge blessing in my life for several years now. They have intentionally invested in me through singleness, dating, engagement, and now marriage and trying to start a family. They ask the thoughtful caring questions, share Biblical wisdom and encouragement, and are also vulnerable and real about their own marriage- which is so refreshing. I have been blessed to watch their marriage through many seasons as well: newly weds, new parents, homeschooling etc. Their love for each other is encouraging to see, they speak respectfully, genuinely care for each other, and are a unified team when it comes to raising their kids. They show how marriage centered on Christ can be filled with joy many years past the “honeymoon phase”, and that you can genuinely like and not just love you spouse. And if you’re not quite feeling that or there is turmoil or frustrations in your marriage they encourage you to work on the issues, to fight on for a marriage that honors Christ. They truly lead by example as they care for and pour into other people’s marriages, and their passion for marriage is clearly evident in any interactions with them. I have always appreciated their presence in my life and the front row seat I got to witness their marriage, and all the dinners, late night chats, and phone messages that come with it. Absolutely wonderful couple to have in your corner wherever you are at in your marriage journey.
-Cole and Haley Scott
Bobby and Kierra care about marriages. They have demonstrated this in our personal lives and when we were going through hard times in our marriage. They were very supportive and walked with us through it. They’re the kind of people you want in your corner when your marriage is on the rocks.
-Anonymous Couple in the Fire Service
What People Are Saying
As their Pastor, I watched Bobby and Kierra get real about things in their marriage that people normally wouldn't share with others. Through the process they grew a ton and others around them began to see the change in their marriage. They started helping their friends and coworkers work through tough stuff in their marriage. Pretty soon, they were overseeing the marriage ministry as volunteers at our church. They have a gift for being willing to put it all out there, receive whatever others might say without judgment, and give practical steps toward building an incredible marriage! There are a few people we would trust more than them to walk people through hard times or just give tips and how to strengthen a good marriage.
-Pastor Andrew Boganwright, Sandals Church
I have worked with Bobby & Kiki for several years as part of the Franklin (TN) Fire Department’s Behavioral Health & Wellness Program. They have played a major role in supporting firefighter families and have been a trusted resource for many couples. They have a genuine desire to serve others well, a beautiful heart for Jesus, and a true passion for supporting marriage.
-Emily Nelms, Morning Watch Wellness
I wholeheartedly recommend Kierra to anyone looking for wise, compassionate marriage counseling. While she and Bobby have never counseled my husband and me as a couple, I have experienced her counseling personally, and it has been deeply meaningful.
She has a peaceful presence that immediately puts you at ease. She listens with genuine care, without judgment or rushing to give advice. Being with her feels like coming home—a place where you feel safe, seen, and understood.
She and her husband also have a strong, healthy marriage that reflects the principles they teach. Their authenticity and the way they live out their faith and commitment, give me great confidence in what they have to offer other couples.
If you're looking for someone who leads with wisdom, grace, and compassion, I can't recommend them highly enough.
-Amanda Lawerence, Haven Women’s Retreats
